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Saturday, March 31, 2007 @ 12:52 AM

I now understand how people can just die from freak accidents. This evening, I was walking down the long flight of stairs from the office when I almost tripped over my own feet. I caught myself just in time and in that instant, my mind enacted what might have happened, in slow-mo clarity. Me tumbling down the stairs (without the grace of the little boy in Ju-On), my lips in an 'O' of surprise and horror and then landing in a heap of arms and legs, the head twisted in an un-natural angle. *Shudders* And with that terrible image fresh in my mind, I took each step with extra care.

There was once a lady who died when she tripped over the steps in the Esplanade Theatre. I think I know how it could have happened now.

I caught the G2000 fashion show at Raffles City by chance. My, I never knew people can look sooo good in work wear! Hordes of photographers were gathered around, eager to capture good shots of the fashion display. The male models were drool-worthy, with looks almost on par with the korean actor, Daniel Henney. But the female models looked like they came out of the same manufacturing line - long blonde hair, willowy build with never-ending legs. Making money out of sashaying down the catwalk seems like a pretty good deal to me.

I like to people-watch when I'm on the train. It's just a good way to pass the time, though sometimes I get too tired to do it. There was this girl sitting directly opposite me today. Throughout the journey, she was grinning to herself so frequently, I thought she was nuts. And I don't understand how this ah peh could be adjusting his balls in public. That is so not discreet.

Ballroom dancing is just... so sexy!

Trying out new recipes is my new past-time. Well, it's all the more enjoyable when you have someone who agrees to wash up after you. Thanks bro!

And I so want to get a pet. Don't think I will be allowed to keep a dog though. And seeing cute lil hamsters being put up for adoption online is awfully tempting. Sigh, now the million dollar question, am I up to it?


Saved by a Rocher

Thursday, March 29, 2007 @ 12:06 AM

For some reason, I was feeling melancholic today. That heart-heavy feeling, which I sometimes get and can't explain.

Dor told me, chocs would be the cure.

So I took her advice when I reached home. The first spot I hit was the fridge. No chocs. Damn.

Thus began the rampage around the house. Then... in the secret stash my mum hid under her bag in the living room, I found the box of Ferrero Rocher. And there, right in the middle of the almost-empty box, the last gold-foiled globe twinkled enticingly at me.

I can't put into words how I felt then. Pure happiness, I tell you. It was really like it's meant for me!

I think that Rocher really helped. At least for today.

In case you are wondering why the chocs need to be hidden, it's because we all have a sweet tooth, some more than others. And the most obvious place is always the safest place.

An emergency stash for times just like this.


The Phantom of the Opera.. is there!

Tuesday, March 27, 2007 @ 11:36 PM

I have been thinking of going for Phantom ever since I heard last Sept that it would be coming to S'pore. And I found a buddy to go with just when I had almost given up entertaining the idea of ever watching it. The funny thing was, she also had a hard time scouting for a partner!

It sure felt like I had struck lottery!

In the aftermath of our elation, we bought CAT 1 tix. Can't wait for May! =)



*Smacks Head*

Wednesday, March 21, 2007 @ 9:24 PM

*A little background: The day I flew home from Bangkok, I had the shock of my life as I tugged my luggage into my room. I had to gape at the sight of my ceiling lamp dangling precariously by the wire cable.*

This evening over the phone...

Ma: "Oh, the contractor came by just now to fix up the ceiling light in your room."

Me: "Great! I'll come back later and see how it is."

Ma: "He came with his son who's two years older than you."

Me: "Huh. Who? The contractor?"

Ma: "Of course. His son is really a pleasant boy. We were talking about introducing you to him."

Me: *sputters*

Ma: "And I showed him your picture!"

Me: "What????!! How can you just flash my picture around?!"

As glad as I am that I will no longer be residing in semi darkness, I was instantly miffed and more than a little horrified that my ma, of all people, had been showcasing her daughter to others. My second thought was, sheesh, which picture did she show him? I sure hope it wasn't that ancient photo of me in specs and my pom-pom hairstyle! Haha...what a moment for my vanity to kick in!

Something is seriously up these days. Just the night before, I had received an SMS from this colleague I had met during my internship days a few years ago. I had to laugh out loud when I read its contents:

"Hi, I would like to introduce my cousin to you. You ok? He is a nice guy. Quite shy..."

Oh man, what's with all these matchmaking business? At 21-ish, 22-to-be, I do not deem it necessary for myself to be matchmade. What's wrong with being happily single? And I believe I've a long way to go before I need to settle down. I'm still a youth, ain't I? I would gladly declare myself past my expiry date if I were to step over the threshold of 35 onwards.

Can I sidetrack? A close friend of mine recently got attached after 21 years of singlehood. I'm deliriously happy for her of course. In fact, we all are! You go, girl! :)

Personally, I don't believe in matchmaking. Meeting someone for the first time, with both of you knowing the intention of the date, is superbly awkward. You will definitely be sizing up the other, assessing his looks, mannerisms and dressing etc etc.

Omg, why did he come in a pink shirt and purple pants?
He looks fine.. but I can't stand the sight of the hairs peeking out of his nostrils!
Gosh, can he talk about something else other than football?

What will come, will come lah. And I would rather wait for the right one than plunge myself into any possibility that comes along. Right??


"I got blog leh!"

Friday, March 16, 2007 @ 5:58 PM

After watching Just Follow Law, I didn't think that the blog add declared by the old auntie (who played Fann's mum) in the movie would be for real...

http://www.laozhabor.blogspot.com/


The Big City

@ 5:03 PM

After soaking in the sights of the countryside, we arrived at the bustling, dusty city of Bangkok. We couldn't get enough of the shopping and feasting and silly me tired myself out further with late night cable tv. I simply couldn't resist the HBO and Star Movies channels lah!

The rooftop pool at the second hotel we stayed in, beckons invitingly. We had planned to take an early morning dip but well... u know..


*Drumroll* Presenting my POW, 'holey' waffle!

A smug Madame Doreal showing you how it should be done - all fluffed up and whole.


The day we spent at Chatuchak Market was a hot, tiring day. You should have seen us lugging our loot around like wholesalers and it was close to evening before we sat down for lunch. But I must say it is an interesting market; you can get practically anything there! From pretty cutlery to furniture to clothes to furry pets!


This had to be our most extravagant night in Thailand. After hearing so much about Bed Supper Club, we simply had to pay it a visit. Patrons can lounge on beds in this chic club, sipping their cocktails before their meals are served. The highlight of the night came when two expats occupied the bed next to us. I was aghast when one of them laid his head on Dor's lap, cushioned by a pillow (thankfully!) and the other tickled her leg. We couldn't get away from them quickly enough!




Sunday night was themed their 'Gay Night'. The performer that night was a buxomy brunette who was all woman and curves. Our jaws dropped when she shot us a question, "How many of you can tell that I was once a man?" Apparently, the influence of Charlie's Angels on her young self was so complete that she had undergone a gender change. And she's married!




My first manicure in this lifetime, which has been amazingly resilient! The pretty pink cherries are still intact on my fingers now, a month from the trip.


And our traditional Thai massage at Healthland! The two-hour-long massage was so soothing that we dozed off in the midst of it. Mmm. The tuk tuk rides had our hairs raising on ends with every sharp turn. Crossing the roads also turned out to be a challenge for us.



We tried to get from point 1 to point 2, a shortcut that should have gotten us to the other side of the road. We ran across, faced oncoming traffic, freaked out and ran back, faced another set of oncoming traffic before we got back to our starting point. On hindsight, I don't know why we did that in the first place. It was terrifying!


We've thoroughly enjoyed staying in guesthouses for this trip. In a way, they are so much cozier and you get to meet different nationalities! At VN guesthouse, we met Chi-Song and her bf from Korea and at PU, we made friends with Mr Japanese who hardly spoke English but managed to teach us a new poker card game, with the help of a Japanese-English Dictionary. And of coz, Lee from UK, whose curls we absolutely adore.

And as you noticed, the peace sign is really an universal language.

The most amusing incident took place at Khao San, when we were having a drink at Macs. These two Egyptian guys were blatantly flirting and he kept offering me a single fry at every other turn of the conversation. His 'One for your eyes', 'One for your nose' cracked me up as he paid tribute to my facial features. And he had even whispered to Dor that 'he was getting a little high and horny.' It was hilarious!




All too soon, it was home sweet home. We arrived in Bangkok almost empty-handed and went home with truckloads.
We'll be back!

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What? Another Wat?

Saturday, March 10, 2007 @ 5:14 PM

This was the second Wat that we visited that morning and it was definitely the more interesting of the two!








If you noticed, this is Ayutthaya's version of the Leaning Tower of Pisa. I read that this was due to the soft sand underneath which leads to the slanting angle of the structure.

And the highlight of this Wat will have to be this Sandstone Buddha!

The roots of the Bodhi tree have completely enveloped this statue, such that the entire body has disappeared from view, or perhaps even disintegrated. It seems to be a sacred site to the Thais.



This is the only way you are allowed to pose before the Buddha. We were taking a picture, initially standing by the chains and were halted by the guard. He then took this photo for us.


And this is my favourite pic of all!

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Relics from the past

@ 5:06 PM

In our rush to get to Ayutthaya, we gave the famous 'Tiger Temple' a miss due to time clashes. The temple started to take in cubs years ago and the tiger family has since expanded. The monks take care of them and have opened it up to visitors so as to maintain the upkeep of the place.

Tourists get up close and personal with the big cats, under the watchful eye of the monks and workers. No red or bright-coloured clothings are allowed, just in case you know. And of course, you have to sign an indemnity form upon entering the place - declaring that you will not hold the monks responsible if you should leave the place with a limb less. *shudders* Some say the place is just a gimmick, paying an entrance fee just to take pictures with the tigers. But who knows?


As the ancient capital of Thailand, Ayutthaya used to be its cradle of civilization. Today, in the place of its once thriving empire, stands crumbling ruins and headless buddhas, the remains of a rich history. At the height of its glory, records reveal that there were three palaces and over 400 magnificent temples on an island linked by canals.

We took a night tour on our first day there and while the ruins were beautifully lit, we could only admire its rugged beauty from a distance. This of course, was not sufficient to satisfy us. So we had to pay them a visit the next morning in broad daylight!

The names of the ancient ruins begin with a Wat. A Wat, in thai terms, refers to a buddhist temple. The first one we visited was Wat Ratchaburana.












Thai school kids having a school excursion. Cute!


Our guesthouse in Ayutthaya with racks of Japanese Manga! A pity I couldn't read a word of Jap. They have a recreation corner where you can watch cable channels or just flip through magazines. And dear Dor was in our room that night, practising chinese oldies on a random KTV channel. :p Okay, I admit I put her up to it.

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Back and Broke!

Wednesday, March 07, 2007 @ 6:13 PM

So we came back in one piece, risked our lives with reckless tuk tuk drivers and spoke poor English for one week. There were times when we were scared stiffless, times we were caught in fits of hilarity and even on all fours. It was indeed a trip of many firsts.

We wanted to have an off-the-beaten-track trip to Thailand, on top of the usual Bangkok shopping frenzy, thus the first 2 stops out of the capital.

The Kanchanaburi Adventure


Kanchanaburi

The no-flush incident

I guess outside of Bangkok, you don’t really get toilets with flushing facilities that often. Our first night in the guesthouse, we were staring at the toiletbowl with perplexity. Where is the freaking flush button? And we were met with the same expression on the Thai staff’s face the next day, when we queried him on the sanitary facilities. Apparently, you are supposed to spray water from a nozzle till everything is washed away. I wonder if everything just gets emptied into the river beneath us.

VN Guesthouse - The river rooms

Getting wet

The first stop of our day tour was the seven-tiered Erawan Waterfalls. While we had set off with an ambitious heart, it was not long before we were breathless. The aim of the climb up was to get to the waterfall at the top-most tier and have a refreshingly cool dip. The thing was, it got steeper and steeper the higher we climbed and we were scrambling for footholds. We were also unglamourously on all fours sometimes. I was secretly wondering if we would be able to tahan the way down.

Truth be told, we were a little disappointed when we finally reached the 7th tier. We were expecting some great, roaring, spectacular sight like the Niagara Falls but were met with a much more tranquil pool instead. Nevertheless, we had a good dip, accompanied by little fishes at the bottom which nibbled at our feet. The other resident animals were the monkeys, which were peacefully grooming each other before a tourist teased them with bananas. So they got hyper and started to eye our belongings.

If you look carefully at the top part of the waterfall, a spunky tourist has actually managed to find her way up there!

The face-off

The moment the 2 monkeys paused on their way past us, I sensed that they were up to no good. Our bags and clothes were on this rock which was in between us – the humans and the monkeys. I thought yelling would do the trick. So I did, not once but thrice. It just stared beadily at me. As it reached out to grab my bag, I did the same and got scratched. It was not until we threw Dor’s slippers at them that they retreated. And I had too enthusiastically flung the slipper into the water. Haha.

Scoreboard
Humans - 1
Monkeys - 0

Yay!

It was only later that I heard that the same monkey had pulled the hair of another tourist. I’m willing to bet that this particular one is a female monkey, for that inherent bitchiness she possesses.

Clockwise from left: 1) On the way up 2) Finally we reached the top! 3) The monkey culprits grooming 4) Us posing happily seconds before the face-off with the monkeys

High high up there

Sitting in a suspended seat way up there is no joke. After I got over the initial nerves (images of us toppling off the elephant’s back rampant in my head), it was quite an experience lurching forward with each step it took. Our guide sat in front of us straddling its huge, flappy ears and singing to the tune of “大象,大象,你的鼻子怎麽这麽长?” The back of its ears were surprisingly pink, splattered with grey spots. And its grey hide was so thick and coarse! You should have seen its gentle brown eyes, a little unfocused, framed by the longest lashes ever.


Look at the humongous elephant dung!

A cool dip in the river

After all the excitement, we had a breather activity – River Rafting! It was very peaceful just sitting on the raft, being rowed forward. I was surprised that a bamboo raft was so stable, despite its flimsy appearance. And the best part was of course, the swimming in the river. The river did not smell at all! It was so relaxing just floating there, despite vaguely nagging thoughts of what else might be lurking beneath.


The death railway

The remnants of World War II still remains in Kanchanaburi in the form of the Death Railway. Countless POWs were sacrificed in the Japanese’s quest for a strategic route to transport resources. When we visited the Death Railway Museum, it was coincidentally 8 Feb, the day the Japanese invaded Singapore decades ago. It was said that when the Singapore POWs were brought to Thailand, they were promised better living conditions in the new camp. But of course, the Japanese soldiers were lying.

I chanced upon this blog which gives a true account of what a POW went through then. Give it a read!
http://www.globalgayz.com/kwai.html

Clockwise from left: 1) On the death railway 2) Fellow train passengers getting some fresh air 3) A re-enactment of the Road-Runner-tied-to-railway saga =p 4) The bridge over the River Kwai

Noises-in-the-night

Other than the distant karaoke music drifting in now and then, what had us covering our ears was the sound of neighbourly activities seeping through the thin walls between us. Moans punctuated by short pauses, which came faster and faster. I was glad that I had mp3s to keep the noises at bay.

The waterbed experience

We were awoken the next morning by tremors. Bleary me sat up in bed and initially thought it was an earthquake. Then I realized that our bed was actually bobbing up and down, because speedboats were zooming past us on the river. And with that, I went back to sleep. Not a bad sensation after all; in fact, I quite liked it. Thumbs up to staying in a floating river raft room! And imagine yourself bobbing when you are in the shower too. *grinz*
The view from our room's balcony

The swing in the guesthouse!

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A New Friend!

Sunday, March 04, 2007 @ 6:01 PM

Chi Song a.k.a Horn, whom we met at our first stop in Thailand, was travelling with her angmoh bf. She's our age, so it was really easy to talk to her, gushing about hunky korean actors (more from my side :p) and whatnots. But what had us sputtering was her suave partner, blond ponytail and all, who spoke superbly fluent Mandarin and not forgetting Korean, English and his native languages.

And how did we meet? By greetings of An-nyong Ha-se-yo! And of coz, a puzzled me. Apparently, they thought I was korean. It's a good feeling to get to know people of different nationalities once in a while!

And while we think Korea is full of kimchi, Rain and everything nice, they happen to be full of admiration for our way of life too! Haha..a little hard to imagine when you are living right here huh?

Next spot to tour: Korea!

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